Have you ever thought about the kind of legacy you want to leave?
This past week, two men who are dearly loved by many passed the torch to the next generation. William E. Dudley retired after 25 years of ministry at Signal Mountain Presbyterian Church, and Truett Cathy, founder of Chick-fil-A, passed away at age 93. Anybody who knew either of these men will be quick to tell you their lives were profoundly impacted as a result of that relationship.
At a celebration for Dudley, it wasn't just adults who talked about him and his love for life, his family, children and ministry. Young adults, teens and children alike were quick express their love and admiration for him as well as the lessons he taught them just by watching him day in and day out. While there were some serious moments along with tears throughout the celebrations, there was also a lot of laughter.
During his decades of ministry, Dudley led with humility and integrity. He loved people well, both those who were easy to love and those who were more challenging. He was known for seeking out "the least of these" and making sure they knew they were loved.
At the conclusion of his final sermon at his church, Dudley asked Brad Blockley and Graham Cash to join him at the front of the sanctuary. To the world, these young men may look like they have special needs but to Dudley, they were two of the best sanctuary greeters ever; every woman who came through their door was greeted with a kiss on the hand.
Truett Cathy was also a man of deep faith and great integrity who found extreme joy in giving to others. In his book, "Eat Mor Chicken: Inspire More People" he said, "Nearly every moment of every day we have the opportunity to give something to someone else -- our time, our love, our resources. I have always found more joy in giving when I did not expect anything in return."
Cathy was a humble man who was very intentional about the legacy he wanted to leave for his family and others. This didn't happen by chance. It took time, forethought, a concerted effort and making the decision to do the right thing no matter the cost.
He taught those around him the importance of taking care of widows and orphans. He claims over 150 foster grandchildren who have grown up in the foster homes operated through his WinShape Foundation. He considered getting an education important and gave millions in scholarships for Chick-fil-A employees to continue their education.
Although retired, it is pretty much guaranteed that Dudley will continue to impact the lives of those around him. While Cathy's time on this earth has ended, he will continue to make a difference because of all of the things he put in place throughout his life.
Leaving a legacy for your children and others is not something you can purchase, but it is probably one of the greatest gifts you can give.
How about you? What kind of legacy are you building? How will your words and actions light the way for the next generation?
William E. Dudley and Truett Cathy: Your light shines on.
Julie Baumgardner is president and CEO of First Things First. Contact her at julieb@firstthings.org.