Wow! Regardless of the girlfriends comments, regardless of what you think the mom should have done, or said. It doesn't change the fact that a young man lost his life. Fry the mother that shot him? Really, well there ya go the first person without sin just cast the first stone. Yes, your entitled to your opinion,but it's not your place to judge.
Someone lost a loved one in this situation, and families are grieving.
GIVE THEM A LITTLE BIT OF RESPECT....