I am a friend of K's with a unique prospective. My grandmother was killed by a drunk couple. They never served jailtime... They were very poor individuals. While I can attest that he was a god fearing good hearted young man, I cannot defend him or even try to explain why he has caused this damage to your family. I would feel ashamed to ask you for a second chance for him. I know how you are feeling at this moment and know the pain you will feel for some time to come. This incident has revived every bad memory of from that time period for myself and is something I worked very hard to protect my family from and to see it happen again has destroyed me. I will pray that you will find forgiveness in the Lord and that this young man takes responsibility for the damage he has caused to your family. May you find the peace you seek and Randy rest in peace. I will be praying for both sides in this tragedy.
2 Corinthians 5:10
"For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive recompense, according to what he did in the body, whether good or evil."